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Nigbati ẹnikan ba ṣe idiwọ ijade rẹ lati yara tabi ọkọ: de-escalation ati salọ

Awọn nọmba pajawiri yato nipasẹ orilẹ-ede. Oju-iwe yii nlo 911, nọmba fun Amẹrika ati Kanada. Ọpọlọpọ awọn orilẹ-ede miiran lo 112, 999, tabi nọmba miiran. Wa nọmba fun orilẹ-ede rẹ.

Nini eniyan miiran ti o duro ni deede ni iwaju ẹnu-ọna pipade, di awọn bọtini ọkọ ayọkẹlẹ rẹ mu, mu ọwọ rẹ lati da ọ duro lati lọ kuro, tabi kọ lati fa ọkọ kan jẹ mejeeji pajawiri aabo ti ara ẹni ti o ni ẹru ati ẹṣẹ ofin to ṣe pataki ti a mọ ni gbogbo awọn sakani bi **ẹwọn eke *** tabi ** ijẹmọ ti ko tọ. Boya ẹni ti o ṣe idiwọ ijade rẹ jẹ alabaṣepọ ifẹ ibinu kan lakoko ariyanjiyan, ọjọ ibinu tabi ojulumọ, oludari iṣakoso tabi onile, tabi awakọ ti o kọ lati jẹ ki o jade kuro ninu ọkọ ayọkẹlẹ kan, ibi-afẹde iwalaaye rẹ lẹsẹkẹsẹ ni lati ** yago fun jijẹ ogun iṣogo ti ara ni ẹnu-ọna lakoko lilo ifaramọ ọgbọn, awọn asọtẹlẹ nipa ẹkọ ẹkọ ẹkọ ẹkọ ẹkọ ẹkọ ẹkọ iṣere, tabi awọn agbega ti gbogbo eniyan si aye.


Ṣe eyi ni bayi

  1. **Maṣe gbiyanju lati sare-malu tabi ta taara nipasẹ eniyan ti o tobi julọ ti o duro ni àmúró ni ẹnu-ọna dín kan ***: Ilẹkun inu ilohunsoke boṣewa jẹ 76 si 81 sẹntimita (30 si 32 inches) ni fifẹ, fifun eniyan ti o duro ni fireemu ni anfani ẹrọ pipe. Igbiyanju lati Titari kọja wọn àyà-si-àyà nigba ibinu tente oke nigbagbogbo nfa ere-idaraya ti ara kan nibiti o le sọ ọ sẹhin sẹhin sori aga lile.
  2. ** Igbesẹ sẹhin 2 si awọn mita 3 (ẹsẹ 6 si 10) sinu yara lati jẹ ki wọn jade kuro ni fireemu ẹnu-ọna ***: Ti ẹnikan ba duro lẹ pọ si ẹnu-ọna pipade lati jẹ ki o wa ninu, dawọ rin si ẹnu-ọna. Fi ifọkanbalẹ rin sẹhin si apa idakeji yara naa, joko ni ṣoki ni eti alaga kan, tabi rin si ibi idana ounjẹ/itatẹtẹ ẹnu-ọna. Ni kete ti o da nija ẹnu-ọna taara, oludèna nigbagbogbo n lọ kuro ni ẹnu-ọna lati tẹle ọ tabi tẹsiwaju jiyàn, ṣiṣi igun ti o nilo lati gbe ni ayika wọn nigbamii.
  3. ** Lo asọtẹlẹ nipa ẹkọ nipa ara lojiji (ìgbaye ti o sunmọ tabi pajawiri baluwe) lati gba awọn ilẹkun tabi awọn titiipa ọkọ ayọkẹlẹ ṣii **: Paapaa eniyan ti o binu tabi ti n ṣakoso ni aifọwọyi, ikorira visceral si ẹnikan eebi lori ilẹ wọn, ibusun, tabi awọn ohun ọṣọ ọkọ ayọkẹlẹ. Dimu ikun rẹ, gagging ni gbangba, ati sisọ ni iyara * “Mo fẹ lati jabọ ni bayi, jẹ ki n wọ inu baluwe / fa si dena ṣaaju ki Mo to gbe soke lori awọn ijoko rẹ” jẹ ọgbọn ọrọ-ọrọ aṣeyọri ti o ga julọ lati gba ilẹkun iyẹwu ti dina tabi ọkọ gbigbe duro lẹsẹkẹsẹ.
  4. ** Pada pada sinu baluwe inu ilohunsoke tabi yara ti o ko ba le de ẹnu-ọna iwaju ***: Ti eniyan ti o ni ibinu ba n dina ijade ile akọkọ ti o si pọ si iwa-ipa, tẹ sẹhin sinu baluwe tabi yara ti o ni ilẹkun ti o lagbara, tii ki o si ge lati inu, ki o pe nọmba pajawiri ti agbegbe rẹ (911 ni Amẹrika ati Kanada, 112 kọja European Union, United Kingdom, 99 Australia) pajawiri awọn nọmba liana.
  5. ** Fi apamọwọ rẹ silẹ, ẹru, kọǹpútà alágbèéká, ati awọn kọkọrọ ọkọ ayọkẹlẹ lẹhin ti ferese ijade tabi ilẹkun ba ṣii ***: Maṣe rin pada sinu yara kan nibiti ẹnikan ti n di ọ duro lati kan gba apamọwọ rẹ, ẹwu, tabi awọn bọtini. Ohun-ini le ṣe gba nigbamii pẹlu imurasilẹ ọlọpa ara ilu; ni kete ti ẹsẹ rẹ ba kọja ẹnu-ọna sinu gbongan tabi opopona, tẹsiwaju gbigbe si ile itaja ti o tan imọlẹ, iloro aladugbo, tabi ibebe.
  6. ** Ti o ba ni idẹkùn inu ọkọ ayọkẹlẹ ti o duro si ibikan tabi ọkọ ti o lọra, lo ẹnu-ọna ero iwaju tabi window, maṣe gbẹkẹle awọn titiipa ọmọ ẹhin ***: Awọn ilẹkun irin-ajo ẹhin ni awọn iyipada aabo ọmọde ti o mu imudani inu inu jẹ patapata, lakoko ti ọkọ oju-irin iwaju ati awọn ilẹkun awakọ ni o fẹrẹ jẹ gbogbo awọn ọkọ ayọkẹlẹ ni okun darí yi danu *** ti o ṣii ilẹkun nigbati o ba fi ọwọ yi taabu titiipa ti ara ṣe lẹẹmeji ati fa inu inu.

Ṣiṣayẹwo ijade ti dina ati salọ sisan ipinnu

Lo igi ipinnu yii lati yan ọna abayọ ti o ni aabo julọ ti o da lori boya o wa ni idẹkùn inu yara kan tabi inu ọkọ kan.

flowchart TD
    Blocked["Ilẹkun Iyẹwu ti Eniyan Dinakun TABI Kiko lati Jẹ ki O Jade Ninu Ọkọ"] --> LocationCheck{"Nibo Ni Wọn Ti Idilọwọ fun O Lọwọlọwọ lati Lọ?"}
    LocationCheck -->|1. Inside a Room, Apartment, or Office| ViolenceCheck{"Njẹ Eniyan naa n lù ọ Taarapa tabi Ti ṣe iyasọtọ Ohun ija kan?"}
    ViolenceCheck -->|Yes: Active Physical Assault| LockRoom["1. Padasẹyin lẹsẹkẹsẹ sinu Yara iwẹ/Iyẹwu ti o sunmọ, titiipa ati ilẹkun gbe pẹlu ara/ohun-ọṣọ, tabi jade kuro ni ferese ilẹ-ilẹ"]
    LockRoom --> Call911["2. Tẹ 911/112/999 (tabi lo SOS ipalọlọ/ipe laini-ìmọ) ki o duro si idena titi ọlọpa ti o wọ aṣọ yoo fi de ẹnu-ọna"]
    ViolenceCheck -->|No: Standing in Doorway, Holding Keys, or Arguing| DeescalateStep["1. Duro ririn li ẹnu-ọna; Pada sẹhin awọn mita 2 si 3, ohun kekere, ati adehun ifọkanbalẹ feign ('Dara, jẹ ki a joko ki a sọrọ fun iṣẹju 5')"]
    DeescalateStep --> LureOut["2. Lo Ẹkọ-ara tabi Iṣeduro Iṣeṣe ('Mo lero aisan, Mo nilo gilasi kan ti omi / baluwe') lati fa wọn kuro ni ẹnu-ọna ilẹkun"]
    LureOut --> BoltOut["3. Ni kete ti igun ilẹkun ba ṣii (tabi nigbati wọn ba tẹ sinu baluwe / ibi idana ounjẹ), rin ni taara ẹnu-ọna iwaju ti nlọ awọn baagi lẹhin"]
    LocationCheck -->|2. Inside a Passenger Vehicle or Rideshare| SpeedCheck{"Njẹ Ọkọ naa Duro / O lọra (<15 km / h) TABI Gbigbe ni Iyara Opopona?"}
    SpeedCheck -->|Stopped at Red Light, Traffic, or Driveway| BailNow["1. Yi taabu titiipa afọwọṣe tabi fa Iwaju Iwaju lẹẹmeji, jade lọ si ọna opopona/ọrin-ọna, ki o rin si awọn ọkọ ayọkẹlẹ ti tẹdo tabi ile itaja ṣiṣi."]
    SpeedCheck -->|Moving at High Speed| VomitPretext["1. Inu idimu, gag ni ariwo, ki o si sọ pe: 'Fa siwaju ni bayi, Emi yoo ju gbogbo dasibodu rẹ'"]
    VomitPretext --> BailNow

Apakan 1: De-escalation ati ona abayo ọgbọn nigbati ẹnikan ba di ẹnu-ọna yara kan

Nigbati alabaṣepọ, ọjọ, alabaṣiṣẹpọ, ọmọ ẹbi, tabi ojulumọ duro ni iwaju yara ti o ni pipade tabi ẹnu-ọna iwaju ti o sọ pe "Iwọ ko lọ nibikibi titi ti a fi pari eyi", tabi gba foonu rẹ ati awọn bọtini ọkọ ayọkẹlẹ kuro ni ọwọ rẹ, awọn iyipada ti yara naa yoo yipada lẹsẹkẹsẹ. Lílóye ìmọ̀ ẹ̀kọ́-ẹ̀kọ́ ti ẹnu-ọna ẹnu-ọna gba ọ laaye lati ṣaju wọn laisi ijakadi ti ara.

Kini idi ti o n halẹ lati pe ọlọpa lakoko ti o wa ninu yara le ṣe afẹyinti

Ni gbangba gbangba tabi lati lẹhin ẹnu-ọna aabo titiipa, kede “Mo n pe ọlọpa” jẹ idena ti o lagbara. Sibẹsibẹ, nigbati o ba wa ni idẹkùn ** inu yara kanna ** pẹlu alabaṣepọ ti o binu tabi ojulumọ ti o duro laarin iwọ ati ijade nikan, ati pe foonu rẹ han ni ọwọ rẹ, ti n kede "Jẹ ki n jade tabi Mo n pe 911" nigbagbogbo ma nfa ẹdọfóró iwa-ipa lẹsẹkẹsẹ lati fa foonu naa kuro ni ọwọ rẹ ki o si fọ.

Dipo, lo ** De-Escalation Tactical (Ibamu Ilana) *** lati sọ ẹṣọ wọn silẹ titi iwọ o fi ṣẹda ṣiṣi ijade ti ara tabi gba ilẹkun titiipa laarin iwọ ati wọn:

Blocker Ihuwasi ni Yara Kini Ko Lati Ṣe (Awọn Ẹgẹ Ilọsiwaju) Imo isorosi akosile & Ti ara Maneuver
** Duro pẹlu awọn apa rekoja tabi àmúró taara ni iwaju yara pipade tabi ẹnu-ọna iwaju *** Maṣe rin soke laarin 30 cm (1 ft) ti àyà wọn ki o gbiyanju lati de ẹgbẹ-ikun wọn fun ikun ilẹkun; eyi yoo mu ọ wa laarin ibiti o gba ati yi ẹnu-ọna sinu ere gídígbò kan. ** Pada pada ki o si fun ẹnu-ọna naa fun igba diẹ ***: Ṣe awọn igbesẹ ti o lọra mẹta sẹhin si arin yara naa, sọ awọn ejika rẹ silẹ, jẹ ki ẹmi kan, ki o sọ rọra pe: *“O dara. ti o sunmọ ẹnu-ọna ẹnu-ọna / ẹnu-ọna iwaju.
** Mu awọn bọtini ọkọ ayọkẹlẹ rẹ tabi apamọwọ ati dimu wọn mu lati jẹ ki o lọ kuro *** Maṣe jijakadi fun awọn kọkọrọ rẹ tabi mu ni awọn apo wọn. Awọn bọtini ọkọ ayọkẹlẹ rẹ jẹ nkan ti irin; ara rẹ jẹ irreplaceable. ** Duro ni abojuto ti awọn bọtini lẹsẹkẹsẹ ***: Ti ilẹkun iwaju funrararẹ jẹ ṣiṣi silẹ nitori wọn ro pe didimu awọn bọtini ọkọ ayọkẹlẹ rẹ di ẹgẹ inu, duro titi wọn o fi ṣeto awọn bọtini lori counter tabi yipada si ibi idana ounjẹ, ati ** rin ni taara ẹnu-ọna iwaju ni ẹsẹ laisi awọn bọtini tabi apamọwọ rẹ **. Lọ si ile aládùúgbò, ile itaja wewewe, tabi ọkọ ayọkẹlẹ ọlọpa ti o duro si ibikan ki o pe 911/112/999.
** Ibeere lati ṣayẹwo foonu ti ṣiṣi silẹ tabi beere pe ki o gbe ipe kan duro *** Ma ṣe gbe foonu rẹ sita ni ipari apa nibiti o ti le gba nigba ti o ba n pe awọn iṣẹ pajawiri ni wiwo itele. * Lo SOS pajawiri ipalọlọ tabi pipe laini ṣiṣi lati apo tabi baluwe ***: Lori awọn fonutologbolori ode oni, titẹ bọtini agbara ẹgbẹ ** awọn akoko 5 ni iyara ** (tabi dimu bọtini ẹgbẹ + bọtini iwọn didun) ni ipalọlọ tẹ 911 / 112/999 ati firanṣẹ awọn ipoidojuko GPS rẹ laisi o ni lati wo iboju (rii daju pe “Awọn eto ipe ni ipalọlọ” ṣiṣẹ).
** Idilọwọ ọfiisi aaye iṣẹ, ọfiisi onile, tabi ẹnu-ọna iyẹwu ojulumọ lakoko ariyanjiyan kan *** Maṣe pariwo awọn ẹgan tabi halẹ awọn ẹjọ nigba ti o wa ni igun lẹhin tabili kan. ** Lo “Ariwadi Ẹni-kẹta” tabi “Meter Parking / Tow”: Wo aago rẹ ki o sọ ni idakẹjẹ: *“ Arabinrin mi / alabaṣiṣẹpọ mi joko ni isalẹ ni ọkọ ayọkẹlẹ mi ti o duro ni ilopo ni ọna ina ti n duro de mi, ti Emi ko ba jade ki o sọ fun u pe ki o duro si ibikan fun iṣẹju mẹwa 10, aabo ile yoo pe mi.

Awọn asọtẹlẹ-ogorun 4 ti o ga julọ lati yi ohun idena kuro lati ẹnu-ọna

Nigbati ẹnikan ba n dina ijade rẹ lakoko ariyanjiyan tabi ipade ifipabanilopo, ibi-afẹde rẹ ni lati yi ** geometry ti yara naa ** nitorinaa o sunmọ ẹnu-ọna iwaju (tabi baluwe ti o ni titiipa pẹlu window) ju wọn lọ:

  1. ** Rọrun Nkan / Ọrọ-ọrọ eebi*:
  2. Lojiji da ijiyan laarin gbolohun ọrọ, gbe ni lile, tẹ ọwọ kan si ẹnu rẹ ati ekeji lori ikun rẹ, tẹ siwaju diẹ diẹ, ki o ṣe ohun gbigbọn gbigbẹ gidi kan.
  3. Sọ ni kiakia nipasẹ awọn ika ọwọ rẹ: "Oh ọlọrun, Emi yoo gbe soke, gbe, Mo nilo igbọnsẹ / ibi idana ounjẹ ni bayi."
  4. Awọn eniyan n lọ sẹhin sẹhin kuro ni ipa ọna ẹnikan ti o fẹ lati bì lori wọn. Ni kete ti o ba kọja ẹnu-ọna yara yara sinu gbongan, boya bolulẹ taara ẹnu-ọna iwaju tabi tii ararẹ si inu baluwe pẹlu foonu rẹ.
  5. The Glass of Water / Ice Pack Request:
  6. Sit down on the edge of the bed or chair, put your head in your hands as if exhausted or dizzy, and say quietly: "My head is pounding and I feel really dizzy. Can you please grab me a glass of water from the kitchen so we can keep talking?"
  7. The moment they walk into the kitchen and turn toward the sink faucet, stand up silently and walk straight out the front door (do not pause to put on shoes or grab a jacket).
  8. ** Nkan ti o Ju silẹ / Idamu Idasonu ***:
  9. Ti o ba di gilasi kan ti omi tabi duro nitosi tabili kan ni ibi idana ounjẹ / yara gbigbe, “lairotẹlẹ” kọlu gilasi omi kan si ẹgbẹ ti yara naa ** kuro ** lati ẹnu-ọna ijade (* “Oh rara, o nṣiṣẹ sinu okun agbara / rogi”*). Bi wọn ti nlọ lori tabi tẹẹrẹ lati mu aṣọ inura kan, rin taara jade ni ẹnu-ọna.
  10. ** “Ipadasẹhin yara iwẹ iro” si Ferese Ilẹ-Ilẹ-Ilẹ-Ilẹ kan
  11. Ti eniyan ba n ṣọ ẹnu-ọna iyẹwu iwaju ni yara nla, rin ni ifọkanbalẹ sinu yara-ilẹ tabi baluwe bi ẹnipe yoo lo yara isinmi tabi dubulẹ, sunmọ ati titiipa ilẹkun inu ni rọra ki latch naa ko tẹ ni ariwo, rọra ṣii window ilẹ-ilẹ, gbe jade iboju kokoro, ki o si jade ni ita si ita.

Danger

In domestic or intimate-partner relationships, blocking a doorway, taking a partner's phone or car keys, or preventing them from leaving a room during an argument is a major clinical predictor of escalating physical domestic violence. Even if the person never strikes you and eventually lets you leave an hour later, treat any incident of unlawful restraint or exit-blocking as a critical safety red flag. Review our abele iwa-ipa ati domestic violence recovery and safety plan guides once you are in a safe location.


Part 2: Escaping when someone blocks or locks you inside a vehicle

Idilọwọ lati jade kuro ni ọkọ ayọkẹlẹ ero, ọkọ nla, ọkọ ayokele, tabi rideshare jẹ iyara nla kan, pajawiri iyara nitori gbogbo irin-ajo ibuso kilomita n gbe ọ lọ jinna si awọn ami-ilẹ ti o faramọ ati awọn ẹlẹri sinu iṣẹlẹ ilufin keji. Fun awọn ilana amọja nigbati o ba n ba awọn awakọ iṣowo ṣiṣẹ, tun wo wa lewu rideshare tabi takisi iwakọ itọnisọna.

Ipele 1: Nigbati ọkọ ayọkẹlẹ ba tun duro tabi duro ni ami ina pupa / iduro

Akoko ti o dara julọ lati sa fun ọkọ ni ** lakoko ti awọn kẹkẹ ti duro tabi yiyi ni isalẹ 8 si 15 kilomita fun wakati kan (5 si 10 maili fun wakati kan)**, ṣaaju ki awakọ to fa si ọna opopona giga tabi rampu.

  1. Bii o ṣe le ṣẹgun awọn titiipa ilẹkun agbara lati inu ni iṣẹju meji 2 ***:
  2. Ọpọlọpọ awọn arinrin-ajo ni ijaaya nigbati awakọ ba tẹ bọtini titiipa agbara tituntosi lori apa apa awakọ ati pe wọn gbọ gbogbo awọn ilẹkun mẹrin * clunk * titiipa. Ranti: ** Awọn iṣedede aabo ọkọ ayọkẹlẹ ti Federal ati ti kariaye (gẹgẹbi FMVSS 206 ni Amẹrika ati Ilana UN ECE 11 ni Yuroopu) nilo awọn ilẹkun ero iwaju lati jẹ ṣiṣii ẹrọ lati inu laisi agbara itanna ki awọn olugbe le sa fun lẹhin jamba kan.
  3. ** Da lori ṣiṣe ọkọ ayọkẹlẹ ati awoṣe, ṣe ọkan ninu awọn iṣe mẹta wọnyi lori ẹnu-ọna ero iwaju ***:
    1. ** Double-Fa System *** (wọpọ ni BMW, Audi, Volkswagen, Ford, ati ọpọlọpọ awọn igbalode sedans / SUVs): Fa inu ilohunsoke chrome enu mu ** gbogbo awọn ọna pada ni kete ti ** (eyi ti mechanically POP awọn titiipa actuator soke), tu o patapata, ati ** fa awọn mu a keji akoko *** lati unlatch ki o si Titari ẹnu-ọna ìmọ.
    2. ** Rocker Lock Tab ọtun tókàn si awọn inu ilohunsoke mu *** (wọpọ ni Toyota, Honda, Nissan, Hyundai, Kia, ati Mazda): Pẹlu rẹ atanpako, isipade kekere petele pilasitik atẹlẹsẹ taabu ọtun loke awọn inu ilohunsoke mu ki aami pupa fihan, ki o si lẹsẹkẹsẹ fa awọn mu ni ọkan išipopada.
    3. ** Ifiweranṣẹ Titiipa Sill Inaro ***: Fa ifiweranṣẹ titiipa inaro si oke ti ilẹkun inu gee taara ki o fa imudani.
  4. **Ti o ba wa ni ijoko BACK ati ọwọ ilẹkun ẹhin ko ṣe nkankan (Titiipa Aabo Ọmọde titan) ***:
  5. Gbogbo ọkọ ayọkẹlẹ ẹnu-ọna mẹrin ni ẹrọ ẹrọ ** Titiipa Aabo Ọmọde *** yipada lori eti inu ti awọn ilẹkun ẹhin. Nigbati o ba wa ni titan, fifamu inu inu ẹhin ko ṣe nkankan rara, paapaa ti ilẹkun ba wa ni ṣiṣi silẹ.
  6. **Maṣe fi akoko ṣòfo lailai fun gbigbe ọwọ ẹhin ti o ku leralera ***:
    • **Aṣayan A (Yi lọ si isalẹ window ẹhin) ***: Ti awakọ naa ko ba ṣiṣẹ bọtini titiipa window, tẹ window yipada si isalẹ ni agbedemeji, de apa rẹ si window, ati ** fa ọwọ ilẹkun ẹhin ita ita ***, imudani ita yoo kọja titiipa ọmọ patapata ati ṣi ilẹkun.
    • **Aṣayan B (Bọ lori console aarin sinu ijoko ero iwaju) ***: Ti ọkọ ayọkẹlẹ ba duro ni ina pupa tabi ami iduro ati awọn ilẹkun ẹhin ati awọn ferese mejeeji jẹ titiipa ọmọde, ṣii igbanu ijoko rẹ, tẹrin siwaju laarin awọn ijoko garawa iwaju meji (tabi lori ori ori ori ero iwaju), ki o fa ** ẹnu-ọna ero ero iwaju ** lakoko ti o npa ilẹkun iwaju ṣii si opopona.
  7. Where to run the instant your feet hit the pavement at an intersection:
  8. Run straight toward the vehicle stopped directly BEHIND you (or into an open business/gas station): An aggressive driver cannot drive a car in reverse at 60 kilometers per hour through queued traffic. Running backward between the stopped cars behind you, and standing right in front of another driver's windshield while pointing at the car you just escaped and mouthing "CALL 911", gives you an instant 2-metric-ton steel shield and multiple witnesses with dashcams and phones.

Phase 2: When the vehicle is already moving at city or highway speed

If the driver refuses to stop, misses your exit intentionally, or accelerates when you ask to get out, do not jump out of a vehicle moving faster than 15 to 25 kilometers per hour (10 to 15 miles per hour) unless your life is in immediate mortal danger right that second, as hitting asphalt at highway speeds causes fatal head trauma. Instead, force the driver to slow down or pull over using these four escalatory tactics:

1. The Immediate Nausea / Vomiting Pretext (De-escalation first)

  • Do not start by screaming "You are kidnapping me" if the driver is an angry partner or unstable acquaintance who can still be tricked into pulling over.
  • Unbuckle or loosen your collar, lean forward clutching your stomach, gag loudly, and say in a panicked voice:

    "Stop the car right now, I'm going to puke. Pull over to the shoulder right now before I throw up all over your dash."

  • Simultaneously press the window switch to lower the window for "air." The moment the car slows down below 15 km/h (10 mph) pulling toward a curb, gas station, or highway exit ramp, pop the door open and bail out before the car even comes to a complete stop.

2. Calling 911 / 112 / 999 Loudly on Speakerphone (or Silent SOS)

  • If the driver is a rideshare driver, taxi driver, or acquaintance who ignores your request to stop, dial 911 / 112 / 999 immediately:
  • If it is safe to speak aloud (for example, from the back seat of a rideshare): Put the dispatcher on loud Speakerphone and state clearly: "I am in a [color, make, model] car heading [north/south/east/west] on [Highway/Street name], and the driver is refusing to let me out of the vehicle." Ninety-five percent of drivers who are testing boundaries will slam on the brakes and tell you to get out the instant they hear a live 911 dispatcher's voice asking for their license plate.
  • If speaking aloud will cause an violent partner in the front seat to attack you: Trigger your phone's 5-click silent Emergency SOS inside your pocket or purse, and speak out loud as if arguing with the driver while actually feeding location clues to the listening 911 dispatcher: "Why did you just turn north onto Highway 101 past Exit 14 in the blue Honda Civic? Let me out at the Shell station up ahead."

3. Visual Signaling to Passing Drivers and Creating a Traffic Stop

  • If you are in the back seat or passenger seat on a busy highway:
  • Hold your smartphone screen pressed flat against the side passenger window with a giant bold note typed on the screen (or use an emergency flash banner app): HELP CALL 911 so drivers in the adjacent lane can read it and call highway patrol with your plate number.
  • If passing a state trooper or highway patrol cruiser, roll down the window (if unlocked) and wave a bright jacket or lean out waving both arms, or flip the sun visor mirror light on and off rapidly at night.

4. The Trunk Escape Lever (If forced into a vehicle trunk / boot)

  • Every passenger car sold in the United States since 2002 (and many vehicles globally) is equipped with a glow-in-the-dark mechanical interior trunk release handle mounted inside the trunk lid right above the latch:
  • Look for a glowing yellow-green T-handle or lever and pull it firmly to pop the trunk lid open when the car slows for a red light or stop sign.
  • In SUVs, hatchbacks, or older sedans without a glowing trunk lever, pull back the felt carpet liner behind the rear taillights and push or kick out the plastic taillight housing assembly (or unplug the brake light wiring harness) so you can stick your hand out through the taillight hole and wave a cloth to drivers stopped behind the vehicle at traffic lights.

Kini lati ṣe ti ẹnikan ba gba ọwọ tabi aṣọ rẹ ni ti ara bi o ṣe n jade

Ti o ba n jade ni ẹnu-ọna kan tabi ti o jade kuro ninu ọkọ ayọkẹlẹ kan ti eniyan ba fi ọwọ kan tabi meji mu ọwọ rẹ tabi iwaju lati fa ọ pada si inu, maṣe ṣe fagi-ogun laini taara. Eniyan ti o tobi julọ yoo ṣẹgun fa agbara taara si agbara nigbagbogbo. Dipo, lo biomechanical ** Thumb-Gap Escape ***:

  1. **Wo ọwọ wọn ti o mu ọwọ rẹ ki o wa ibi ti atanpako wọn ti pade awọn ika ọwọ wọn ***: Paapaa agbalagba ti o lagbara julọ ko le fun atampako wọn ni wiwọ si itọka wọn / ika ọwọ arin wọn nigbati a ba fi agbara lilọ si aafo dín yẹn.
  2. ** Igbesẹ idaji kan IN si wọn diẹ lati dẹkun ẹdọfu apa wọn ** (nigbati o ba fa sẹhin ni taara, awọn titiipa bicep wọn; titẹsẹ 15 centimeters / 6 inches jo ti tẹ igbonwo wọn ati ki o sinmi dimu wọn fun iṣẹju keji).
  3. **Fi ọwọ dimu (eyiti o fa awọn egungun ọwọ rẹ pọ) ki o si yi iwaju apa rẹ ki eti abẹfẹlẹ dín ti ọwọ rẹ (ẹgbẹ atanpako) tọka taara si aafo laarin atanpako wọn ati ika itọka **.
  4. **Fa igbonwo rẹ ni didasilẹ si ejika idakeji tirẹ ni aaki ti o ga *** (bii ṣayẹwo aago ọwọ rẹ tabi sisọ apa idakeji irun rẹ), ge egungun ọrun ọwọ rẹ ti o ni taara nipasẹ ẹnu-ọna atanpako ti ko lagbara, ki o si tẹ ẹnu-ọna jade lẹsẹkẹsẹ si agbegbe gbangba.

Ailewu lẹhin-sapade ati atokọ iwe ayẹwo ofin

Ni kete ti o ba ti ya kuro ni yara ti a dina mọ tabi ọkọ ti o de ibi aabo, ile gbangba ti o tan daradara, ibebe hotẹẹli, tabi agọ ọlọpa, gbe awọn igbesẹ mẹrin wọnyi lẹsẹkẹsẹ:

  • ** Duro si inu ile ti eniyan ti kun, titiipa tabi ti oṣiṣẹ ti a ṣe abojuto titi ọlọpa yoo fi de ***: Maṣe duro ni ita ni ọna opopona dudu nibiti eniyan le jade kuro ni ile tabi yika bulọki ninu ọkọ ayọkẹlẹ wọn lati fa ọ pada.
  • ** Jabọ irufin ti ko boju mu ti “Idana arufin / Ẹwọn eke” si awọn oṣiṣẹ ti o dahun ***: Ọpọlọpọ awọn olufaragba sọ fun ọlọpa nikan “A ni ariyanjiyan” laisi mẹnuba pe ijade wọn ti dina. Sọ fun oṣiṣẹ naa ni kedere ati ni pato: * "Mo gbiyanju lati lọ kuro ni yara / ọkọ ayọkẹlẹ ni ọpọlọpọ igba, wọn si duro ni ti ara ni ẹnu-ọna / tiipa awọn ilẹkun / gba apa mi / mu foonu mi ati awọn bọtini lati ṣe idiwọ fun mi lati lọ kuro ni ilodi si ifẹ mi."
  • Ma ṣe pada nikan lati gba ọkọ ayọkẹlẹ rẹ, awọn bọtini, foonu, tabi awọn aṣọ ***: Beere fun ** Imurasilẹ Ilu ọlọpa *** (nibiti awọn ọlọpa aṣọ meji ti o ba ọ lọ si ibugbe fun iṣẹju 15 lakoko ti o gba awọn bọtini, oogun, iwe irinna, ati awọn pataki ati wakọ kuro lailewu).
  • ** Ṣayẹwo ọkọ ati foonu rẹ fun awọn olutọpa GPS ti o ni aabo (AirTags, Tile, tabi awọn olutọpa OBD-II) lẹhinna ***: Ẹnikan ti o ṣe idiwọ ijade rẹ lati ṣakoso awọn gbigbe rẹ le tun yọ olutọpa Bluetooth sinu apo ẹwu rẹ, kẹkẹ daradara, tabi ẹhin mọto ọkọ ayọkẹlẹ, tabi mu pinpin ipo ṣiṣẹ lori foonu rẹ. Ṣiṣe ọlọjẹ olutọpa lori foonu rẹ ki o ṣayẹwo awọn igbanilaaye pinpin ipo rẹ lẹsẹkẹsẹ; wo wa lepa ati ti ara kakiri olugbeja itọnisọna.

Tip

Gbiyanju gbigba mejeeji iṣẹ iranlọwọ akọkọ ti ifọwọsi lati ọdọ Red Cross tabi St John Ambulance ati kilaasi aabo ti ara ẹni ti o ni ipalara ti o ni imọran ti o ṣe adaṣe ẹnu-ọna ojulowo ojulowo, awọn idasilẹ ọwọ-ọwọ, ati eto aala ọrọ.


Awọn ibeere ti a beere nigbagbogbo

Is it actually illegal for a partner, roommate, or acquaintance to stand in front of a door to stop me from leaving an argument?

Yes, intentionally blocking a doorway, locking someone in a room or car, taking their car keys or wheelchair, or grabbing their arm to prevent them from leaving a room or vehicle against their will is a criminal offense known as false imprisonment, unlawful restraint, or criminal confinement across the United States, Canada, the United Kingdom, the European Union, and Australia, even if the person never hits you and even if they own or rent the house or car.

What is the safest way to get past someone who is standing directly in front of the bedroom or front door?

Never try to shove or wrestle straight through someone braced in a narrow doorframe, where they have complete physical advantage. Instead, stop walking toward the door, take three steps backward into the room, lower your voice, and pretend to agree to stay and talk so they relax and step away from the doorframe; once they walk over to the couch or you use a physiological pretext like needing a glass of water or feeling about to vomit to draw them into the kitchen or let you into the hallway, walk straight out the front door leaving your bags behind.

How can I get a driver to pull over immediately if they are refusing to let me out of a moving car?

Before screaming accusations that might make an unstable driver accelerate, use the acute vomiting pretext: clutch your stomach with one hand and cover your mouth with the other, make a loud gagging sound, and shout urgently, "Pull over right now, I am about to throw up all over your dashboard and seats." Almost every driver has an automatic reflex to pull to the curb to protect their car interior; the instant the car slows below 10 to 15 kilometers per hour (6 to 10 miles per hour), manually flip the front door lock or pull the front handle twice and step out toward stopped traffic behind you.

What should I do if I am in the back seat of a car and the inside door handle won't open the door?

If pulling the rear interior handle does nothing even when unlocked, the mechanical Child Safety Lock is engaged on the rear doors. First, try pressing the rear window button to lower the glass halfway, reach your arm outside the window, and pull the outside door handle, which always opens a child-locked door; if the windows are also locked out and the car stops at a red light, unbuckle your seatbelt, climb immediately between the front seats into the front passenger seat, and open the front passenger door, which never has a child lock.


Awọn orisun ṣayẹwo

  • Gbona Iwa-ipa Abele ti Orilẹ-ede (NDVH, United States) ati Iranlọwọ Awọn Obirin / Asabo (United Kingdom): * Eto Aabo Lakoko Awọn ijiyan Abele nla, Idinku ti ko tọ si, ati Awọn ilana Ilọkuro Ailewu.
  • National Highway Traffic Administration (NHTSA / US Department of Transportation, United States): * FMVSS No.. 206 Ilekun Titiipa ati ilekun Idaduro irinše ati FMVSS No.. 401 Inu ilohunsoke Trunk Tu Standards *.
  • National Crime Prevention Council (NCPC, United States) and Suzy Lamplugh Trust (United Kingdom): Personal Safety in Confined Spaces, Rideshare/Vehicle Escape Protocols, and Tactical Verbal De-Escalation.
  • Ẹka ti Ile-iṣẹ Idajọ lori Iwa-ipa Lodi si Awọn Obirin (OVW, United States): * Awọn Atọka Igbelewọn Apaniyan (Iṣakoso Imudani, Idilọwọ Jade, ati Awọn Okunfa Ewu Ihamọra)*.

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