Ke komo ʻana i kahi hale hoʻomalu hoʻomāinoino home me nā keiki a i ʻole nā holoholona¶

ʻO ka haʻalele ʻana i ka hoa hana hoʻomāinoino a i ʻole ka ʻohana kolohe ʻo ia ka manawa pōʻino loa i ke ola o ke kanaka i pakele, no ka mea, ʻo ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana e hoʻoulu pinepine i ka piʻi nui ʻana o ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana, ka sabotage kālā, a me ka hoʻopaʻi make. Iā ʻoe ke kuleana no ka palekana o nā keiki liʻiliʻi a i ʻole nā ​​​​meaʻai ʻohana aloha, hiki i ka logistics o ka holo ʻana ke manaʻo nui. Hoʻohana mau ka poʻe hoʻomāinoino i ke aloha o ka mea ola i kā lākou mau keiki a me nā holoholona ma o ka hoʻoweliweli ʻana e waiho i nā hoʻopiʻi hoʻopunipuni makua, hoʻokahe i nā waihona waihona hui, hūnā i nā palapala hānau, a hoʻoweliweli paha e hoʻomāinoino a pepehi i ka ʻīlio ʻohana a i ʻole ka pōpoki inā haʻalele ka mea ola. Ke hōʻike mau nei nā haʻawina e nā hui hoʻomāinoino kūloko a hiki i ka 48 pakeneka o ka poʻe i pakele i ka hana ʻino i ka home no ka mea makaʻu lākou i ka haʻalele ʻana i kahi holoholona me ka mea hoʻomāinoino.

ʻAʻole like me nā hale noho ʻole e hoʻolaha ākea ana i kā lākou mau ʻōlelo alanui a laina i ka poʻe ma nā alahele ākea, ** nā hale palekana hoʻomāinoino pili i loko o ka home ** e hana ana i loko o nā hale noho ʻike ʻole ʻia i kiaʻi ʻia e nā mea hoʻokomo palekana ballistic, nā limahana 24-hola, a me nā kānāwai pale kau wahi. Eia kekahi, ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e koho hou ma waena o kou ola a me ke ola o kāu pipi: ʻo ka mālama ʻana i nā hale hana hoʻomāinoino i loko o ka home, nā hāʻawi federal PAWS Act, RedRover Safe Escape haʻawina holo, a me Safe Havens for Pets nā ʻoihana hānai holoholona e ʻae i kāu mau holoholona e pakele me ʻoe. Ke alakaʻi nei kēia alakaʻi iā ʻoe i kēlā me kēia ʻanuʻu ma o ka hele ʻana i ka nānā ʻana i ka lethality intake, ka haʻalele ʻana me kāu mau keiki ma ke kānāwai, ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana i ka holo ʻana o nā holoholona a i ʻole ka hoʻoluhi ʻana, ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana i nā mea nānā GPS ma mua o ke komo ʻana i kahi hale malu malu, a me ka pale ʻana i ke kākau inoa ʻana o kāu mau keiki ma lalo o ke kānāwai McKinney-Vento.

E hana i kēia i kēia manawa¶

1. E hele koke i ka palekana kino inā pilikia ʻoe, kāu mau keiki, a i ʻole kāu mau holoholona. Inā he hoʻouka kaua a aia paha nā mea kaua, e holo i kahi ākea, hale o kahi hoalauna, a i ʻole hale kūʻai 24-hola a kāhea i kāu helu pilikia kūloko ((911 ma ʻAmelika Hui Pū ʻIa a me Kanada, 112 ma waena o ka European Union, 999 ma United Kingdom) me ka hoʻohana ʻana i kā mākou helu pilikia papa kuhikuhi.
2. Kele i kahi 24/7 Domestic Violence Hotline mai ke kelepona palekana no ka hoʻomaka ʻana i kahi hale palekana malu. Ma ʻAmelika Hui Pū ʻIa, kelepona 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) aiʻole kikokikona "START" i 88788 (ma UK, kelepona 0808 2000 247; ma Kanada, e kāhea 211 a i ʻole nānā sheltersafe.ca; ma Australia, e kāhea 1800RESPECT / 1800 737 732). ʻAʻole ** ʻae nā hale palekana no ka hoʻomāinoino ʻana i ka home no ka mea huna ko lākou mau helu alanui; hoʻomaka nā ʻae a pau me ka helu kelepona a me ka loiloi lethality.
3. Mai haʻalele i kahi pipi me ka hoa hana ʻino; e ho'āla koke i Safe Havens for Pets a i ʻole RedRover. E haʻi aku i ka mea hoʻopiʻi hoʻomāinoino i ka home i kāu kelepona mua ʻana: *"He pipi kaʻu [ʻīlio/pōkole] pilikia inā haʻalele ʻia."redrover.org) e uku no ka 100 pākēneka o ka holo ʻana i ka ʻoihana, a i ʻole e waiho i kāu pipi i loko o kahi Safe Havens for Pets (safehavensforpets.org) hale hānai.
4. **E lawe pū i kāu mau keiki me ʻoe a e kākau i kāu kumu palekana e lanakila ai i nā ʻōlelo hoʻoweliweli "ʻaihue makua". Waihona no ka ex parte Emergency Temporary Restraining Order (TRO) with Temporary Sole Custody i loko o 24 a 48 hola o ka hiki ʻana i ka hale hoʻomalu.
5. E hoʻopau i ka kaʻana like ʻana o ka wahi a nānā i kou ʻaʻahu, ʻeke diaper, a me nā kola puaʻa no nā mea hoʻokele Bluetooth huna (AirTags / Tile) MAMUA o ka hālāwai ʻana i ka halihali hale hoʻomaha. Inā hahai ka mea hoʻomāinoino i kāu kelepona, GPS kaʻa, a i ʻole AirTag huna i loko o ka holoholona pipi o kāu keiki i ka hale palekana huna, ua hoʻopilikia ʻia ka palekana holoʻokoʻa a pono ʻoe e hoʻoneʻe koke ʻia.
6. E haʻalele koke inā ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hopu i hoʻokahi palapala a i ʻole kālā. ʻOiai he mea kōkua ka ʻeke hele i hoʻopaʻa mua ʻia o nā palapala hānau, nā lāʻau lapaʻau, a me nā moʻolelo o ka lāʻau lapaʻau holoholona, ​​** ʻaʻohe mea i loko o ia hale e pono ai kou ola**. Hāʻawi nā hale hoʻomāinoino i ka home i ka meaʻai, nā diapers, nā ʻano meaʻai, nā lole, nā moena, nā meaʻai pipi, a me nā mea kākoʻo kānāwai manuahi e hoʻololi i kēlā me kēia ID nalowale a me ka palapala hānau mai ka wā ʻōpala.

Pehea ka ʻokoʻa ʻana o nā hale palekana me nā hale noho ʻole¶

He nui ka poʻe i pakele e hoʻokaʻulua e kāhea i kahi hale hoʻomāinoino home no ka mea ke kiʻi nei lākou i kahi papahele haʻuki haʻalulu me nā moena ma ka honua. ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻo nā hale palekana hoʻomāinoino i hoʻopaʻa ʻia i ka home he mau hale noho ʻike trauma i hoʻolālā ʻia no nā ʻohana e holo ana i ka pōʻino.

Pehea e hana ai ka Hotline Intake and Lethality Assessment (Danger Assessment).¶

Ma muli o ka nui o ka noi no nā moena hale palekana huna, hoʻāʻo ka hana ʻino home i ka poʻe kelepona me ka hoʻohana ʻana i kahi mea lapaʻau i hōʻoia ʻia, ʻo ka Danger Assessment (DA) a i ʻole ka Lethality Assessment Protocol (LAP) a Kauka Jacquelyn Campbell, ma mua o ka papa inoa kali mua maʻalahi.

• Mai hoʻohaʻahaʻa a hoʻohaʻahaʻa paha i ka hoʻomāinoino ʻana i kāu kelepona ʻana: No ka haʻalulu a hilahila paha, wehewehe pinepine ka poʻe ola i ka hoʻopaʻapaʻa hou loa. E hoʻomaopopo i ka 100 pākēneka me ka mea hana intake inā ua hana kāu hoa i kekahi o kēia mau mea, no ka mea, ʻo kēia nā mea wānana makemakika kiʻekiʻe loa o ka pepehi kanaka home a hoʻomaka koke i ka hoʻokomo ʻana i kahi moena pilikia pilikia Priority 1 a i ʻole kahi palapala hōkeo hōkele i hoʻopaʻa ʻia e ka malu:
• Hōʻewaʻewa: ʻO kēlā me kēia manawa kahi i kau ai ka mea hoʻomāinoino i kona mau lima, lima, a i ʻole kekahi mea ma kou ʻāʻī a i keakea paha i kou hanu ʻana (hoʻonui ka strangulation i ka pilikia helu o ka pepehi kanaka ma hope o 750 pakeneka).
• Ke komo i nā pū a i ʻole ka hoʻoweliweli ʻana e pepehi iā ʻoe, nā keiki, nā holoholona a i ʻole lākou iho.
• Ka piʻi ʻana o ke alapine a i ʻole ke koʻikoʻi o ka hana ʻino i ka makahiki i hala, a i ʻole ka hana ʻino i ka wā ** hapai**.
• Ka moe kolohe, lili nui loa, a i ʻole hana ʻino/pepehi ʻana i ka holoholona ʻohana.
• He aha ka hopena inā piha ka hale palekana kūloko i ka 100 pakeneka i kēia pō? Inā kiʻekiʻe ʻoe ma ka pale lethality a paʻa nā lumi moe a pau o ka hale palekana, e noi i ka mea hoʻonohonoho hoʻokomo no:
• ** ʻO nā palapala hōʻaiʻē hōkele palekana pilikia: ** ʻO ka hapa nui o nā keʻena hana ʻino i loko o ka home e lawe i ka federal VOCA (Victims of Crime Act) a me FVPSA (Family Violence Prevention and Services Act) kālā pilikia e hoʻopaʻa iā ʻoe a me kāu mau keiki i loko o kahi lumi hōkele huna ma lalo o kahi inoa huna no 3 a 7 mau pō a wehe ʻia kahi lumi hale palekana.
• ** ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi o ka hāʻawi ʻana i ka hale palekana o kahi kalana kokoke:** ʻO ka manawa pinepine, ʻo ka neʻe ʻana i 30 a 50 mau mile (20 a 30 mau mile) i kahi hale hoʻomalu hoʻomāinoino home o kahi kalana e pili ana, ʻoi aku ka palekana * no ka mea ʻaʻole ʻike ka mea hoʻomāinoino i kēlā wahi, a e uku ka hale hoʻomalu no kahi Uber/Lyft i hoʻopili ʻia a i ʻole ka halihali mākaʻi e kiʻi iā ʻoe i laila.

flowchart TD
    A["E hoʻoholo e holo i ka hana ʻino i ka home me nā keiki a i ʻole nā holoholona"] --> B["Kāhea iā 24/7 DV Hotline mai ka polokalamu palekana (1-800-799-7233)"]
    B --> C["Hoʻopiha i ka Lethality / Danger Assessment Me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo"]
    C --> D{"Loaʻa iā ʻoe nā holoholona ʻohana i ka pilikia?"}
    D -->|Yes| E["Noi i kahi moe hoʻomaha, RedRover Safe Escape Grant, a i ʻole Safe Havens Foster"]
    D -->|No| F["E hoʻonohonoho i kahi malu malu a i ʻole kahi hokele palekana"]
    E --> F
    F --> G["Digital Sweep: Hoʻopau i ke kelepona i hoʻopaʻa ʻia, e nānā i nā mea pāʻani a nā keiki a me nā kola holoholona no nā AirTags"]
    G --> H["E hālāwai me Shelter Transport ma Neutral Public Rendezvous (Hospital / Police Lobby)"]
    H --> I["E hōʻea i ka Confidential Safe House & kau inoa i ka ʻaelike palekana palekana ʻole"]
    I --> J["I loko o 24-48 mau hola: File Ex Parte Restraining Order, Mālama Kūikawā, & Hoʻololi Kula ʻo McKinney-Vento"]

Pakele me nā holoholona: Co-sheltering, RedRover grants, a me nā kuleana PAWS Act¶

Hoʻopilikia pinepine ka poʻe hana ʻino, pōloli, a hoʻoweliweli paha i nā holoholona ʻohana e koi aku i kahi mea ola e noho a hoʻi mai. Mai haʻalele i kahi pipi ma hope me ka manaʻo o ka mea hoʻomāinoino "ʻaʻole loa e hōʻeha i ka ʻīlio."

1. ʻO ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana ma ka pūnaewele vs. kahu hānai huna¶

I kēia lā, ma kahi o 15 a 20 pakeneka o nā hale hoʻomāinoino home ma ʻAmelika Hui Pū ʻIa, Kanada, a me UK ʻo ** Pet-Friendly Co-Sheltering Facilities** (a i ʻole e ʻae ana i nā holoholona i loko pono o kou lumi moe ʻohana a i ʻole ka hana ʻana i nā kennels i mālama ʻia i ke aniau ma ka pā kahi āu e hele ai a hānai i kāu pipi i kēlā me kēia lā). Inā ʻaʻohe hale hoʻokipa o kou hale palekana, ʻehā mau papahana ulia pōpilikia e hoʻopaʻa koke i ke āpau:

• Nā Palekana no nā Piʻi (safehavensforpets.org): Hoʻohana ʻia e ka Animal Welfare Institute (AWI), ʻo kēia papa kuhikuhi hiki ke ʻimi ʻia ma luna o 1,600+ mau hale hoʻomāinoino home, nā hui kanaka, a me nā keʻena lapaʻau holoholona ma kēlā me kēia mokuʻāina ʻo US e hāʻawi ana i kahi hoʻomalu pilikino pilikino a i ʻole mālama hānai no nā mea ola.
• ** Hāʻawi ʻia ʻo RedRover Safe Escape (redrover.org/relief-dv):** Inā ʻaʻohe hale hānai holoholona o kou hale hoʻomalu, hiki i kāu mea kākoʻo hoʻomāinoino home ke hoʻouna i kahi palapala noi pūnaewele no kahi RedRover Safe Escape Grant, i ʻae ʻia i loko o 24 hola (a i ʻole ka lā ʻoihana hoʻokahi) a uku pololei ʻia no ** a hiki i 30 a 60 mau lā o ka lāʻau lapaʻau ʻoihana a i ʻole ke kau ʻana i ka kennel** (me nā lāʻau lapaʻau kūikawā) no laila ʻo ʻoe ka ʻīlio, ʻīlio a i ʻole ka ʻīlio.
• ** ʻO nā hui aloha maikaʻi aʻe "Rescue Rebuild" & Purina Purple Leash Project:** E nīnau i ka mea hoʻolale malu inā loaʻa iā lākou nā palapala hōʻaiʻē hōkele holoholona pipi ʻo Purple Leash Project (no nā hōkele pili holoholona e like me La Quinta a i ʻole Motel 6).
• Nā like o ka honua:
• United Kingdom: Pahana ʻIlio Trust Freedom (dogstrust.org.uk), Cats Protection Lifeline, a me Endeavour Project hāʻawi i ka mālama hānai manuahi no nā holoholona o nā mea ola e holo ana i UK Women's Aid or Refuge safe houses.
• Kanada: Kanada Kanaka, SafePet Ontario (safepet.ca), a me SPCA provincial Compassionate Boarding Programs hoʻopaʻa i nā holoholona holoholona me ka uku ʻole ʻia ma nā hale hānai huna.
• Australia: RSPCA Safe Beds for Pets a me Lucy's Project hoʻonohonoho i ka holo ʻana i nā holoholona ulia pōpilikia ma nā mokuʻāina o Australia.

2. E hoʻokumu i ka kuleana kānāwai o kāu pipi ma mua a ma hope o ka haʻalele ʻana¶

Ho'āʻo pinepine ka poʻe hoʻomāinoino e kelepona i nā mākaʻi a ʻōlelo ʻoe "ʻaihue i kā lākou ʻīlio" no ka hoʻopili ʻana a ʻike paha i hea ʻoe.

• E lawe mai a paʻi paha i ka hōʻoia o ka mālama ʻana i nā holoholona: Ma mua o ka haʻalele ʻana (inā palekana e hana pēlā), e kiʻi i nā kiʻi o a i ʻole e hoʻopaʻa ** i nā pepa palapala holoholona me kou inoa ma luna o ia mau mea**, nā palapala hōʻoia o ka lāʻau lapaʻau, nā palapala laikini aupuni, nā ʻaelike hoʻokomo, a i ʻole nā ​​ʻōlelo panakō e hōʻike ana ua uku ʻoe no ka meaʻai a me ka mālama holoholona.
• Hoʻohou i ke kākau inoa microchip koke: Ke palekana ʻoe, e kelepona i ka hui kākau inoa microchip o ka pipi (e like me HomeAgain, AKC Reunite, a i ʻole 24PetWatch) a noi i kā lākou hui pilikino hana ʻino home e laka i kāu moʻokāki me ka ʻōlelo huna, wehe i ka helu kelepona a me ka leka uila a ka mea hoʻomāinoino, a hoʻopaʻa inoa i ka chip i kāu mea hoʻolaha palekana a i ʻole ka helu shelter.
• Hoʻohui i kāu pipi i kāu kauoha hoʻomaha (Pet Protection Orders): Ma luna o 40 US states, Washington, D.C., a me Puerto Rico i kēia manawa e ʻae i nā luna kānāwai e hoʻokomo i nā holoholona ʻohana a me nā holoholona hoa ma kahi Domestic Violence Restraining Order / Order of Protection. I ka waiho ʻana i kāu kauoha mua ex parte me ke kākoʻo kānāwai o ka hale hoʻomalu, e nānā i ka pahu e noi ana iā Manaʻo Kūʻokoʻa, Loaʻa, a me ka Manaʻo o nā Holoholona Hoa a me kahi kauoha e pāpā ana i ka mea pane mai ka hana ʻino, hoʻoili a hoʻokokoke ʻana paha i ka holoholona.

ʻO ka pakele ʻana me nā keiki: ka lanakila ʻana i ka "kidnapping makua" hoʻoweliweli¶

ʻO kekahi o nā mea kaua weliweli loa i hoʻohana ʻia e ka mea hoʻomāinoino e haʻi iā ʻoe: "Inā ʻoe e hele i waho o kēlā puka me nā keiki, e kāhea wau i nā mākaʻi, e hōʻike i kahi Amber Alert no ka ʻaihue, a ua hopu ʻoe i ʻike ʻole ʻoe iā lākou."

1. Kou mau pono kanawai i ka holo ana me kau mau keiki¶

• Inā ʻaʻohe kauoha mālama ʻia e ka ʻaha: Ma ʻAmelika Hui Pū ʻIa, Kanada, UK, a me Australia, nā mākua male (a me nā mākua ʻaʻole i mare ʻia me nā mākua kū kānāwai, a i ʻole ka makuahine hānau inā ʻaʻole i hoʻokolokolo ʻia ka makua kāne) he mau kuleana pili kumukānāwai i ka mālama kino** o kā lākou mau keiki. ʻO ka lawe ʻana i kāu mau keiki me ʻoe i kahi hale hoʻomāinoino i loko o ka mokuʻāina inā ʻaʻohe kauoha mālama ʻo ** ʻaʻole ia he ʻaihue.
• Inā loaʻa kahi kauoha mālama a kipa paha (a inā ʻoe e hele i nā laina mokuʻāina): ʻO kēlā me kēia mokuʻāina ʻo ke kānāwai keakea mālama mālama a me ke aupuni pekelala Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction and Enforcement Act (UCCJEA, Section 204 Temporary Emergency Jurisdiction) e komo i kahi ** Good Cause / Domestic Violence Necessity Defence of domestic violence. Eia naʻe, no ka hoʻokō ʻana i ke kānāwai a pale aku i ka mea hoʻomāinoino mai ka holo mua ʻana i ka ʻaha ʻohana a me ka ʻōlelo ʻana ua "haʻalele ʻoe i ka home" a i ʻole "haʻalele," ** pono ʻoe e hahai i nā ʻanuʻu kānāwai ma hope o ka lele ʻana i loko o 24 a 72 mau hola **.

2. ʻO ka protocol pale kānāwai 48-hola i ka hiki ʻana i ka hale hoʻomalu¶

Mai hūnā me ka hāmau no nā pule me ka waiho ʻole ʻana i nā pepa o ka ʻaha, a i ʻole e hele ka mea hana ʻino i ka ʻaha ʻohana wale nō a loaʻa kahi kauoha * ex parte * e koi ana i ka hoʻi ʻana o nā keiki. Akā, e hana pū me ka loio o ka hale malu ma ka lā 1 e hoʻokō i kēia mau ʻanuʻu ʻekolu:

1. **E hoʻomaopopo i ka hoʻouna mākaʻi kūloko a i ʻole ka hui "Kumu Maikaʻi" o ka Loio Apana o ke Kalana (e pale ana i ka nalo hewa ʻole / hōʻike ʻo Amber Alert): ** Ke noho maluhia ʻoe a me kāu mau keiki i loko o ka hale hoʻomaha a i ʻole ka hale palekana, e kāhea aku ka mea kākoʻo malu i ke keʻena hoʻouna pilikia ʻole o ka keʻena mākaʻi ma ke kūlanakauhale āu i haʻalele ai (a i ʻole, waiho ʻia ma lalo o ka Penal 7 Code 8 e like me Kaleponi. E hōʻike pū me ka Loio Apana Kalana ʻOihana ʻaihue keiki i loko o 10 mau lā). Wahi a ka mea kākoʻo: *"ʻO [Shelter Name] kēia. [Survivor's Name] a me nā keiki liʻiliʻi [Names/DOBs] ua palekana loa a noho lākou i loko o kahi hale hoʻomāinoino pili i ka home ma muli o ka hana ʻino i loko o ka home. ʻAʻole lākou e nalo;
2. Hoʻouna i kahi Ex Parte ʻO ke kauoha hoʻomaha hoʻomaha (Order of Protection) me ka mālama kānāwai kūʻokoʻa a me ka mālama kino kino i loko o 24 a 48 mau hola: ** Ua hāʻawi ʻia kahi kauoha * ex parte * e ka luna kānāwai i ka lā hoʻokahi āu i waiho ai, ** me ka ʻole o ka mea hana ʻino i loko o ke keʻena hoʻokolokolo, ma muli o kāu ʻōlelo hoʻohiki ʻino. Hāʻawi koke ke kauoha a ka luna kānāwai iā ʻoe i ka manawa 100 pakeneka o ka mālama ʻana i ke kānāwai a me ke kino o nā keiki, hoʻopaneʻe i ka kipa ʻana o ka mea hoʻomāinoino (a i ʻole e kaupalena ʻia i ka mākaʻikaʻi mākaʻikaʻi ʻoihana ma kahi kikowaena paʻa), a lilo ia i hewa no ka mea hoʻomāinoino e hele kokoke iā ʻoe a i ʻole nā ​​keiki.
3. Mai hele i nā palena o ka honua me nā keiki me ka ʻole o ke kauoha a ka ʻaha: ʻOiai e hele ana i nā laina mokuʻāina i loko o ʻAmelika Hui Pū ʻIa no ke komo ʻana i kahi malu, ua pale ʻia ma lalo o ka UCCJEA Section 204 mana pilikia (inā ʻoe e waiho koke i ka ʻaha hoʻokolokolo), e lawe ana i kahi keiki ma kahi palena honua (e like me US i Kanada a i ʻole Mekiko) me ka ʻole o ka makua ʻē aʻe a i ʻole ke kauoha a ka ʻaha e hoʻāla ai i ka **Haspect Convention of the International Child. pale haiki. E noho i loko o ka ʻāina a e kiʻi mua i kahi kauoha hoʻokolokolo kūloko.

ʻOi aku ka palekana kikohoʻe a me ke kino ma mua o ke komo ʻana i kahi hale palekana malu¶

ʻAʻole ʻo ʻoe a me kāu mau keiki wale nō ka mālama ʻana i ka hana ʻino i loko, akā he 20 a 40 mau mea ola ʻē aʻe a me nā keiki e moe ana i loko o ia hale. Inā hahai kāu mea hoʻomāinoino i kāu kelepona, GPS kaʻa, a i ʻole kahi hōʻailona Bluetooth huna i ke ala kaʻa o ka hale palekana, ua pilikia nā mea a pau i loko.

1. ʻO ke kikohoʻe a me ke kino o ka hiki ʻana mai (E hana i kēia MAMUA o ka hālāwai ʻana i ka hale hoʻomaha)¶

Na nā hale hoʻomāinoino i loko o ka hale e aʻo iā ʻoe e hālāwai me kā lākou mea hoʻokele a i ʻole ka mea hana ma kahi kahi lehulehu lehulehu (e like me ka hale hoʻokipa, ke keʻena kali o nā mākaʻi, a i ʻole ka hale waihona puke) ma mua o ke kaʻa pololei ʻana i ka hale palekana. ʻOiai ma kēlā wahi kūʻokoʻa (a i ʻole me ke kōkua o nā limahana mākaʻi / hale hoʻomaha):

• E nānā i kāu mau waiwai, nā mea a nā keiki, a me nā mea hana holoholona no Apple AirTags huna, Samsung SmartTags, Tile trackers, a me GPS pucks: Hoʻomoe mau ka poʻe hana ʻino i nā AirTags i loko o ke kapa ʻeke o ke keiki, i loko o ka bea puʻupuʻu, i loko o kahi pahu kaʻa pēpē, ma lalo o kahi moena ʻili kaʻa, a i ʻole i loko o kahi ʻīlio mānoanoa.
• Pehea e nānā ai: Ma ka iPhone (iOS 14.5+), wehe i ka Find My app, kaomi i ka Items -> Identify Found Item. Ma ke kelepona Android, e holo i ka scan manual ma lalo o Settings -> Safety & emergency -> Unknown tracker alert -> Scan now, a hoʻoiho i ka polokalamu Tracker Detect a i ʻole AirGuard. E nānā kino i kēlā me kēia ʻeke, kaʻa kaʻa kaʻa, ʻeke diaper, a me ke kola puaʻa, a waiho i kekahi ʻeke a i ʻole ʻeke paha i hope inā maopopo ʻole.
• E hoʻokaʻawale i kāu kelepona a me nā papa a nā keiki:
• Inā aia kāu kelepona ma kahi hoʻolālā kelepona ʻohana hui i hoʻomalu ʻia e ka mea hoʻomāinoino, hiki i ka mea hana ʻino ke komo i loko o ka puka lawe lawe (Verizon Family, AT&T Secure Family, T-Mobile FamilyWhere) a triangulate i kou wahi hale kiaʻi kelepona ʻoiai inā ua pani ʻia nā polokalamu GPS. E hoʻopaʻa loa i ke kelepona a wehe i ke kāleka SIM kino (a i ʻole e waiho i loko o kahi leka uila e ālai ana ** ʻeke Faraday** i hāʻawi ʻia e ka hale hoʻomalu) ma mua o ke komo ʻana i loko o ke kaʻa lawe malu.
• E nānā i nā moʻokāki iPads, Apple Watches, Nintendo Switches, a me Roblox/Snapchat moʻokāki: Noho mau nā ʻōpio a me nā keiki liʻiliʻi i loko o Apple Family Sharing, Google Family Link, Life360, a i ʻole Snapchat Snap Map, a i ʻole e leka uila i kā lākou mau hoaaloha (a i ʻole ka mea hoʻomāinoino) ma kahi o lākou. E hoʻopau loa i nā mea uila a pau o nā keiki ma mua o ka haʻalele ʻana i ka wahi e hui ai; Na ka hale hoʻomalu e kōkua iā ʻoe e hoʻonohonoho i kahi **Lifeline SafeLink smartphone manuahi manuahi ʻole ʻole ma kahi helu kelepona hou ke hiki ʻoe.
• Pehea kāu kaʻa? ʻO nā kaʻa hou i kūkulu ʻia ma hope o ka makahiki 2015 kokoke i nā mea kelepona kelepona kelepona (OnStar, FordPass, Tesla App, Toyota Connected Services, Hyundai Bluelink, BMW ConnectedDrive) hiki i ka mea i helu ʻia ma ke poʻo inoa kaʻa a i ʻole ka polokalamu kelepona e ʻike i nā hoʻonohonoho GPS ola maoli o ke kaʻa a wehe mamao a hoʻopau paha i ka mīkini. Eia kekahi, hoʻopili pinepine ka poʻe hoʻomāinoino i kahi GPS tracker $20 i loko o ka OBD-II diagnostic port ma lalo o ke kolamu hoʻokele a i ʻole e hoʻopaneʻe i kahi tracker pākahi i loko o ka bumper hope a i ʻole ka huila maikaʻi.
• E nānā i ka mīkini a i ʻole ka mākaʻi i kāu ** awa OBD-II ** a me nā pūnāwai huila, e kelepona i ka laina pilikino o ka mea hana kaʻa no ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana i ka polokalamu pili kaʻa o ka mea hoʻomāinoino, a i ʻole e ʻae i ka hale hoʻomalu e mālama i kāu kaʻa i loko o kahi kaʻa kaʻa kaʻa ma waho o ka pūnaewele ʻoiai ʻoe e hoʻohana ana i ka hale kaʻa no nā pule ʻelua.

2. Ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i ka ʻaelike Hoʻopalekana Hale Palekana¶

Ke hōʻea ʻoe i ka hale palekana, e kau inoa ʻoe i kahi Confidentiality and Safety Agreement. Ma lalo o kēia lula:

• ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hōʻike i ka helu o ke alanui, nā alahele, ka wehewehe ʻana i waho, a i ʻole ke kaiāulu o ka hale palekana i kekahi, ʻaʻole i kou makuahine ponoʻī, kaikuahine, hoaaloha maikaʻi loa, a i ʻole kahu.
• ʻAʻole paha ʻoe e kauoha i ka hāʻawi ʻana i nā meaʻai (DoorDash, Uber Eats) a i ʻole Amazon i nā pūʻolo pololei i ka puka o ka hale palekana (e hoʻohana nā hale i kahi helu keʻena hoʻokele ʻokoʻa a i ʻole P.O. Box no nā leka a me nā hoʻouna ʻana).
• ʻAʻole paha ʻoe e kiʻi i nā kiʻi a i ʻole wikiō i loko o ka malu a i ʻole ma ka lānai e hōʻike ai i nā helehelena o nā kamaʻāina ʻē aʻe a i ʻole geolocation metadata (EXIF data).

Ka pale ʻana i ke kula o kāu mau keiki a hūnā i kāu helu wahi e hiki mai ana¶

1. Hoʻokomo koke ʻia ke kula a me ka lawe pilikino manuahi ma lalo o ke kānāwai McKinney-Vento¶

ʻO ka holo ʻana i kahi hale hoʻomalu hoʻomāinoino i loko o ka home e hoʻokō koke ʻia kāu mau keiki ma ke ʻano he "keiki home ʻole a me nā ʻōpio" ma lalo o ke federal McKinney-Vento Homeless Assistance Act (42 U.S.C. § 11431 et seq.), hāʻawi iā ʻoe i ʻelua koho kānāwai ikaika:

• Koho A (Noho i loko o kā lākou Kula Origin me kahi kaʻa kūʻokoʻa manuahi): Inā palekana kāu keiki e hoʻomau i ke hele ʻana i kāna kula o kēia manawa (e laʻana, ma hope o kou lawelawe ʻana i ka mea hoʻomāinoino me kahi Kauoha Kāohi e pāpā ana iā lākou mai loko o 100 mika / 300 kapuaʻi o ka pā kula), ua koi ʻia ka moku kula e mālama i kāu keiki i kāna kula kumu a ** hāʻawi i kahi kaʻa kaʻa kūʻokoʻa ma kahi kaʻa kaʻa kūʻokoʻa. kihi)** inā ʻo ka hale palekana ma kahi kula ʻokoʻa.
• Koho B (E hoʻoneʻe koke i ke kula hou kokoke i ka hale hoʻomalu me ka hoʻopaneʻe ʻole o nā moʻolelo): Inā ʻike ka mea hoʻomāinoino i ke kula kahiko a ʻaʻole palekana ke hoʻi mai, koi ʻo McKinney-Vento Act i ka apana kula hou ma kahi kokoke i ka hale hoʻomaha e hoʻopaʻa inoa koke i kāu keiki i ka lā hoʻokahi, ʻoiai inā ʻaʻohe ou palapala hānau, ʻaʻohe moʻolelo lāʻau lapaʻau, ʻaʻohe palapala hōʻoia o ka noho ʻana. E noi e kamaʻilio wale me ka McKinney-Vento Homeless Liaison o ka apana kula, nāna e pale i kou kūlana hale hoʻomalu a pāpā i ke kula kahiko mai ka hōʻike ʻana aku i ka inoa o ke kula hou i ka mea hoʻomāinoino ma lalo o FERPA (Family Educational Rights and Privacy Act) nā hae kauoha a ka ʻaha.

2. Nā Papahana Hoʻopalekana Kūlana Mokuʻāina (ACP / Palekana ma ka Home)¶

Aia ʻoe i loko o ka malu, e kākau inoa koke i kāu mokuʻāina ʻo Address Confidentiality Program (ACP) (ʻike ʻia ʻo Safe at Home ma Kaleponi, Iowa, Maryland, a me Wisconsin; loaʻa ma nā mokuʻāina he 40 o US ma o ke Keʻena Kakauolelo o ka Mokuʻāina).

• Pehea e hana ai ka ACP: Hoʻopuka ka mokuʻāina iā ʻoe a me kāu mau keiki i ke kānāwai Substitute Street Address and P.O. Pahu i malamaia e ke Kakauolelo o ka Mokuaina. Ma ke kānāwai, ʻo kēlā me kēia mokuʻāina a me nā keʻena aupuni kūloko, me ka DMV (laikini kaʻa kaʻa), nā kula aupuni, nā ʻaha, ka hoʻopaʻa inoa ʻana i ka poʻe koho, a me nā keʻena SNAP/Medicaid, pono e ʻae i ka helu wahi o ka ACP ma ke ʻano he wahi noho kū kānāwai. Loaʻa i ka mokuʻāina kāu leka papa mua ma ke kapikala a hoʻouna aku iā ia i loko o kahi ʻeke i sila i kou hale hūnā a i ʻole hale e hiki mai ana, me ka hōʻoia ʻana ʻaʻole ʻike ʻia kāu helu alanui maoli ma nā moʻolelo lehulehu, ka waiho ʻana i ka ʻaha hoʻokolokolo, a i ʻole ka pūnaewele hoʻolaha waihona.

He aha kāu e hoʻopaʻa ai inā he 10 mau minuke kāu (a inā he 0 mau minuke kāu)¶

Inā loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi pukaaniani pōkole i ka wā e hana ana ka mea hoʻomāinoino a hiamoe paha e hōʻiliʻili i nā mea koʻikoʻi me ka ʻole o ka hoʻopiʻi ʻana, e hoʻonohonoho mua i nā mea i ʻoi aku ka paʻakikī o ka mea hoʻomāinoino e ʻauʻa a hoʻohana i nā mea kaua:

Nīnau pinepine¶

Nā alakaʻi pili¶

• ʻO ka hana ʻino home
• Hoʻolālā palekana a me ka hoʻihoʻi ʻana i ka hana ʻino home
• ʻO ka pale ʻana a me ka nānā kino
• Nā holoholona i nā pilikia
• Loaʻa i nā hōʻailona meaʻai wikiwiki (SNAP) a me Medicaid ʻoiai ʻaʻole hale
• Helu pilikia

Nānā ʻia nā kumu¶

• U.S. Keʻena ʻOihana Ola a me nā lawelawe kanaka, ke keʻena lawelawe ʻohana a me nā ʻōpio (HHS FYSB, ʻAmelika Hui Pū ʻIa): *Ke Kānāwai Kāohi ʻOhana ʻohana a me nā lawelawe lawelawe (FVPSA, 42 U.S.C. § 10401 a me nā mea e pili ana) Nā Mana Hoʻokaʻawale a me ka Hoʻokae ʻole *.
• U.S. Keʻena ʻOihana Hoʻokolokolo, Ke Keʻena no ka Hana ʻino i nā Wahine (DOJ OVW) a me USDA (United States): Violence Against Women Act (VAWA) Housing Protections and Pet and Women Safety (PAWS) Act Grant Standards.
• Animal Welfare Institute (AWI) a me RedRover (United States): Safe Havens Mapping Project for Pets of Domestic Violence Survivors a me RedRover Relief Safe Escape Emergency Boarding Protocols.
• Uniform Law Commission and National Council of Juvenile and Family Court Judges (NCJFCJ, United States): Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction and Enforcement Act (UCCJEA) Pauku 204 Temporary Emergency Jurisdiction in Domestic Violence Flight.
• U.S. Keʻena ʻOihana Hoʻonaʻauao (ʻAmelika Hui Pū ʻIa): McKinney-Vento Homeless Assistance Act (42 U.S.C. § 11431) Paʻa Kula, Hoʻokomo koke, a me nā Kuleana pilikino no ka poʻe i pakele e noho ana ma nā hale hoʻomāinoino home.